Going through a divorce can be an emotionally challenging and overwhelming time, and it can sometimes feel like there is an endless barrage of decisions to make and details to manage. Amidst the turmoil, the logistics of changing your last name after divorce may seem like yet another daunting task on your to-do list.
We understand that this process can feel like a weighty step, symbolizing a significant change in your life and identity. In this blog, we will break down the common reasons why people choose either to change or keep their married name after a divorce, the process of changing your name in Florida, and some of the other important considerations with the decision to change your name.
Considerations Impacting the Decision to Change Your Name
The decision to change or keep your married name is intensely personal.
Although people may have many different reasons for changing their name after their marriage ends, here are a few common reasons:
- Emotional closure: Changing one's name after a divorce can provide a sense of emotional closure and help individuals move forward with their lives. It can symbolize a fresh start, allowing them to disassociate from the past and embrace their new identity.
- Avoiding unwanted associations: People may want to distance themselves from their ex-spouse, especially if the relationship is contentious or abusive. Changing their last name can help avoid unwanted associations and create a sense of independence.
- Consistency with a maiden name or previous name: Some individuals may revert to their maiden name or a previous last name to maintain consistency with their pre-marriage identity. This can be especially important for those who have established careers or reputations under their prior name.
At the same time, many people decide to keep their married name after divorce.
The reasons to do so can include:
- Maintaining consistency for children: If a couple has children together, keeping the same last name can help maintain consistency and stability, reducing potential confusion or feelings of alienation.
- Professional reasons: For individuals who have built a professional reputation under their married name, keeping their last name after divorce may benefit their career. Changing their name could confuse colleagues, clients, or other professional contacts.
- Administrative ease: Changing one's name can be time-consuming and involves updating various documents, accounts, and records. Some individuals may choose to keep their name after divorce to avoid the hassle and expense of a name change.
- Personal identity: Some people may feel that their married name has become integral to their identity, regardless of their marital status. In such cases, they may choose to keep their name as a reflection of their personal growth and experiences during the marriage.
Changing Your Name During the Divorce Process
To change your last name during the divorce process in Florida, make sure to include the request for a name change in the initial divorce petition or response. This is important because it allows the court to include the name change in the Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage. If the request is not included initially, you can still amend the initial petition to request a name change before the final judgment.
Changing Your Name After the Divorce Is Finalized
In Florida, if you want to change your name after your divorce has been finalized and the name change was not included in the divorce decree, you must follow the legal name change process.
Here are the steps involved:
- Obtain the necessary forms: A Petition for Change of Name (Adult) form must be obtained.
- Complete the petition: Fill out the petition with the required information, including your current name, desired new name, address, date of birth, and the reason for the change. Be sure to provide accurate and complete information.
- Get fingerprints taken (if required): Some counties in Florida require you to submit fingerprints along with your petition. Check your local county's requirements and, if necessary, have your fingerprints taken by a law enforcement agency or an authorized service provider.
- File the petition: Submit your completed petition, fingerprint card (if required), and any other necessary documents to the appropriate circuit court in the county where you reside. A filing fee will be associated with the submission, which can vary by county. Be prepared to pay this fee when you file your petition.
- Attend a hearing (if required): Depending on your county, you may be required to attend a court hearing before a judge approves your name change. During the hearing, the judge may ask questions about your reasons for the name change and review the submitted documents. If the judge approves your request, they will issue a signed order granting the name change.
- Obtain a certified copy of the order: Obtain a certified copy of the signed order from the court clerk's office, as this serves as proof of your legal name change.
Changing Your Name with Official Government Agencies
You will need several documents to update your name with various government agencies like the Social Security Administration and the Florida Department of Highway Safety and Motor Vehicles (DHSMV).
These include:
- A certified copy of the Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage, which includes the name change order, or a certified copy of your name change order.
- Proof of identification includes a driver's license, state ID card, or passport.
- Proof of U.S. citizenship or lawful immigration status, such as a birth certificate, naturalization certificate, or permanent resident card.
- Social Security Card
Be sure to keep multiple certified copies of the Final Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage or name change order on hand, as you may need them for various name change processes. You may also want to create a checklist of all institutions and entities you must notify of your name change to ensure you don't miss any critical updates. Be patient and give yourself time to complete the process, as it may take several weeks or months to finalize all name changes.
K. Dean Kantaras, P.A. Can Support You
Throughout the name change process, seeking legal counsel from an experienced family law attorney is helpful. They can help guide you through the process, address any concerns or roadblocks, and protect your rights and interests. With the proper legal support, changing your last name during the divorce process in Florida can be a smooth and stress-free experience. No matter what you decide, the experienced Clearwater divorce attorneys at K. Dean Kantaras, P.A. can help you navigate your divorce and protect your interests and rights.
Contact us online or call us at (727) 939-6113 to learn more about how we can help you build a better future for yourself and your family.